http://afteranaffairofthemind.com/life-without-limits/ Rebuilding Your Life After the Devastation of Your Spouse's Sexual Addiction Thu, 14 Jul 2016 00:11:27 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=3.7.41 http://afteranaffairofthemind.com/life-without-limits/#comment-4645 Thu, 14 Jul 2016 00:11:27 +0000 http://afteranaffairofthemind.com/?p=301#comment-4645 Jasmine, that is so difficult. Sexual anorexia, where an addict withholds sex from his spouse, is very common with sex addicts. It can feel very personal, like a huge rejection. I hope you know
this isn’t about you and how beautiful you are, even though it may feel like it. Please do some things to take care of your need for touch. Hugs from good friends. Go for a massage. Take a bubble bath. Watch an inspiring or funny movie. Know you are loved. Laurie

]]> http://afteranaffairofthemind.com/life-without-limits/#comment-2590 Tue, 11 Aug 2015 23:29:59 +0000 http://afteranaffairofthemind.com/?p=301#comment-2590 I forgot to mention… He only confesses after being caught! And now it seems that he lies more. For instance I have smelled the signs of self gratification in the shower which to me unmistakeable but, he DENIES BOLD FACE! We are barely intimate & only after I express my need after long periods of time! We have gone months… And months & on a few occasions over a year!

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